How many of you have found the balance in life maybe even the perfect life and how many of you are still searching? How hard or how easy is it to just go out there and grab whatever is yours. They say all good things come to those who wait. But what if the waiting has been too long. You can’t just change life or the course of it. No, the only thing you can do, is to have patience. And try to keep yourself busy so your mind will wander off to other things. Sometimes I do wish I would have the possibility to change things in a heartbeat. Would my life look differently? Not so long ago I was given the ‘Baby Proposal’, and I was...
The past?
posted by joan
We can not change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We can not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. The past is never really gone to me. Whatever happened 5 days, 5 months or 5 years...
Just saying…
posted by joan
Don’t you agree? I may not post my bad days online on facebook, but I most certainly don’t have a struggle-free life. What you see or read are most of the times happy thoughts and stories. But yes I struggle… who doesn’t? I struggle with things from the past, that have an effect on my daily life. I even went to therapy for it but I can’t really say that my thoughts and feelings have changed. All I can do, is make the most out of my life … NOW. But that’s not always easy. Yet, any day after a dark/bad day is a beautiful day. Life’s really funny: one day you find yourself crying over a fight, the...
Don’t be surpr...
posted by joan
People disappoint you in many ways. When I was having these kind of thoughts, several things had happen that made me feel this way. Call it selfishness or just a lack of care from people around me. I got very annoyed at one point but I made up my mind and decided to let it be. What else can...
It’s true
posted by joan
Do you also have days that you’ll remember as A Black Day? Sadly enough, yesterday happened to be one of those days. I remembered this saying though, that no matter how deep you’ve sunk, how torn you’d feel, you always need to remember that: And since I’m writing this...
fake vs. real
posted by joan
Not talking about body parts here (even though I will share my thoughts about that one later, too) but I am referring to friends who can’t be real with me. Why is that? It makes me wonder… Is it me? Is it them? It’s as if they are hiding behind a big pile of lies and think...
Being thoughtful
posted by joan
I’m not sure how to name this ‘thought of the day’… I was thinking about calling it ‘thoughtful’, but I don’t know if that’s covering it all. When I do something for somebody, I first of all, always expect a thank you. It’s how...
Friends for life?
posted by joan
The question that’s been on my mind lately, is the next thought of the day I’d like to share with you. Lately I am wondering if we can stay friends with someone who we met many, many years ago, with whom we’ve shared a hell of a deal with, shouldn’t those people stay...
boredom
posted by joan
I get bored like you must get bored as well. I do think I get bored quicker. Or I can’t keep my attention slash interest at one thing too long. Except for when I play my games. Online I mean. What do people do to fight against boredom? Everybody always seem to find something to do. They...
family ties
posted by joan
I never gave it much thought to being the second, but the first girl, after the birth of my brother. After me, my parents had two more children which made our family consists of 2 boys and 2 girls. Nicely balanced, that’s what I’d say. I used to feel close to my sister, but that...
autumn
posted by joan
There’s no specific reason why I added this page to my Photography category, I just like the atmosphere in this picture and wanted to share it with you. I do like the four seasons though… The changing of it too. But now that I’m living in Bali, there are only two seasons: dry and wet. I’m sure there are plenty of great pictures to be found (and taken) online as well.
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